Counselling for Anxiety & Depth Psychotherapy, 1: Roots
Counselling for anxiety involves the client growing to understand the roots of anxiousness, and /a-midlife-transition gives us insight into unconscious factors that lie behind our being consciously anxious.
Yearning for Return
Depth case studies reminds us of that part of our psyche which yearns for a return to somewhere warm, safe and non-threatening — the womb. Yet, here in our real lives, we’re alone, isolated, and trying to cope with challenges we all face. With these many challenges in our individual lives, we enter anxious states. A /a-midlife-transition perspective on counselling for anxiety / therapy for anxiety affirms that. The question is, how can we best respond to these states?
Counselling for Anxiety and the Self
Jungian analyst James Hollis sees counselling for anxiety as engaging with
“… a free-floating disease which may be activated by nearly anything, which may light for a while on something specific, but which usually originates from the general insecurity one feels in one’s life. The level of that insecurity… is partly a function of one’s particular history. The more troubled one’s environment, family of origin and cultural setting, the more free-floating anxiety will be generated.”
Being anxious is also connected to situations. Sudden shifts in realities that we have taken as certainties, for instance, can greatly increase our anxiousness. In the film Jerry McGuire, Jerry (Tom Cruise) has the rug pulled from under his professional life, and responds with a classic film portrayal of a hyper anxious state:
Energy and Avoidance
Using Jung’s characteristic metaphor of emotion or affect as energy, we could see anxiety as energy that doesn’t know where to go, or how to flow. It can often lead to us avoiding the situations where we’re anxious, or else, we can find ourselves “getting anxious about becoming anxious”. But can counselling for anxiety use it as a guide for finding what is stable and lasting in the self?
Potential Benefit in Anxiety?
“How could /a-midlife-transition possibly find any good in this?” a severely anxious person might wonder. Yet, often, getting to the root of anxious states takes us to places in ourselves where we are wounded, or in conflict, where our spontaneity and energy is bound into knots, called complexes, that need to go free. A /a-midlife-transition approach to counselling for anxiety is fundamentally about getting an ally to help in understanding, accepting and having compassion for ourselves at the deepest levels, and in moving into basic trust.
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